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New reader, still going through all the postings. Saw the picture of Gilmore and knew immediately what had happened and how much the loss means to you (I’ve helped my family adopt, care for, and ultimately euthanize several rescued goldens). I Wanted to extend condolences on the loss of Gilmore, who had a much better life in your home than he could have ever imagined.
Bob,
My truest condolences to you and your family on the loss of Gilmore … as has been expressed much above, only true dog lovers know how you feel. As we say about Irish Setters — “may the shamrocks fall softly/”
Bobby: I know how hard this is. So sorry to hear about your dog. May the good memories of him and the knowledge that you provided him a good, loving home help you all through this.
We have all been there, Bob, and it does hurt, and is
hard to explain to young children. Thanks for your fine column
which I have enjoyed for many years. Wishing you all the best.
I’m sorry for the loss of your family’s companion. I lost 2 in the last year and it about killed me (Bo, 13, and Lady approx. 14)
We cannot allow a lifetime of happiness to be overshadowed by our loss. But as my grandmother put it, “the true cost of ownership is only known the day we lose them.”
The following two things sums up the unique bond between man and dog for me… and let me know the loss I was feeling had been felt many times before.
- Steve
“This soldier, I realized, must have had friends at home and in his regiment; yet he lay there deserted by all except his dog. I looked on, unmoved, at battles which decided the future of nations. Tearless, I had given orders which brought death to thousands. Yet here I was stirred, profoundly stirred, stirred to tears. And by what? By the grief of one dog.”
-Napoleon Bonaparte, on finding a dog beside the body of his dead master, licking his face and howling, on a moonlit field after a battle. Napoleon was haunted by this scene until his own death.
“Near this Spot
are deposited the Remains of one
who possessed Beauty without Vanity,
Strength without Insolence,
Courage without Ferosity,
and all the virtues of Man without his Vices.
This praise, which would be unmeaning Flattery
if inscribed over human Ashes,
is but a just Tribute to the Memory of
BOATSWAIN, a DOG.
Who was born in Newfoundland May 1803
and died at Newstead Nov. 18th 1808.”
- Found on the monument for Lord Byron’s dog, Boatswain, on the grounds of Byron’s seat in Nottinghamshire, Newstead Abbey.
Friends are hard to lose, I still think of many (with fond memories). Last night I was talking about chasing squirrels and how this job seems to get passed down from old dog to new. Canuck got tired of Maggie nipping at her ears and told Maggie go in the back yard and chase my squirrels, so she did. Once Canuck was sure that Maggie knew how to chase squirrels, Canuck passed on. (Funny, she never pass chase ball down.) Maggie, told Sarah to quite nipping at my ears. Go in the back yard and chase squirrels. Once Sarah had this down pat, Maggie passed on. I am afraid that Bo, is no longer nipping at Sarah’s ears and has gotten pretty good at chasing squirrels. (Sarah makes sure that Bo knows that I am Sarah’s). Life goes on and you remember your best friends for what you gave them and what they gave you. There is always a tear and a smile with the memory.
Deepest sympathy: 14 years ago I had to put my 16 year old Lab ‘Carly’ to sleep: I still grieve to this day………. but we had 16 years of hunting, walking and fun……Your column touches all animal lovers, thank you
To me, loosing a pet is more difficult than loosing a family member. As a aspy geek I don’t interact very well with people but I loved my last dog. As I’ve gotten older I’ve developed some nasty allergies to dogs, which sux, and my kids have some as well so we don’t have any pets that shed.
The following link is for the video which won the 2010 Vimeo Awards, “Last Minutes with ODEN”. Chosen as Best Video, as well as Best Documentary and Community Choice, this video documents Jason Wood’s last few minutes with his cancer-stricken dog Oden.
(I don’t think we realize how much we are emotionally invested in our pets, until we lose one, especially like this. The power of this video lies not with the physical loss of the dog, but in how the owner’s emotions reflect that loss. I’ve been through this process a few times, and hope I never have to go through it again.)
PLEASE NOTE: This short (6 minutes, 15 seconds) video contains some strong language, and may not be suitable for viewing in a work environment. The video is emotionally intense, but extremely powerful, well-crafted and beautiful (IMHO).
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how much the loss means to you (I’ve helped my family adopt, care for, and ultimately euthanize several rescued goldens). I Wanted to extend condolences on the loss
Hi,
New reader, still going through all the postings. Saw the picture of Gilmore and knew immediately what had happened and how much the loss means to you (I’ve helped my family adopt, care for, and ultimately euthanize several rescued goldens). I Wanted to extend condolences on the loss of Gilmore, who had a much better life in your home than he could have ever imagined.
Bob,
My truest condolences to you and your family on the loss of Gilmore … as has been expressed much above, only true dog lovers know how you feel. As we say about Irish Setters — “may the shamrocks fall softly/”
So sorry for your loss.
Regards
Bill
I would like to offer my condolences. They’re all member of the family – stay strong and keep the good memories in memoriam.
Richard
Bobby: I know how hard this is. So sorry to hear about your dog. May the good memories of him and the knowledge that you provided him a good, loving home help you all through this.
I am so sorry.
Losing a beloved dog is always painful.
Please try to remember that Gilmore was a happy creature, full of joy.
When dogs can no longer be happy and joyful, it is time for us to make the decision that is best for them.
Again, my condolences on your loss.
We offer our condolences on you and your family’s loss of a dear pet.
We have all been there, Bob, and it does hurt, and is
hard to explain to young children. Thanks for your fine column
which I have enjoyed for many years. Wishing you all the best.
My deepest sympathies , Bob
I’m sorry for the loss of your family’s companion. I lost 2 in the last year and it about killed me (Bo, 13, and Lady approx. 14)
We cannot allow a lifetime of happiness to be overshadowed by our loss. But as my grandmother put it, “the true cost of ownership is only known the day we lose them.”
The following two things sums up the unique bond between man and dog for me… and let me know the loss I was feeling had been felt many times before.
- Steve
“This soldier, I realized, must have had friends at home and in his regiment; yet he lay there deserted by all except his dog. I looked on, unmoved, at battles which decided the future of nations. Tearless, I had given orders which brought death to thousands. Yet here I was stirred, profoundly stirred, stirred to tears. And by what? By the grief of one dog.”
-Napoleon Bonaparte, on finding a dog beside the body of his dead master, licking his face and howling, on a moonlit field after a battle. Napoleon was haunted by this scene until his own death.
“Near this Spot
are deposited the Remains of one
who possessed Beauty without Vanity,
Strength without Insolence,
Courage without Ferosity,
and all the virtues of Man without his Vices.
This praise, which would be unmeaning Flattery
if inscribed over human Ashes,
is but a just Tribute to the Memory of
BOATSWAIN, a DOG.
Who was born in Newfoundland May 1803
and died at Newstead Nov. 18th 1808.”
- Found on the monument for Lord Byron’s dog, Boatswain, on the grounds of Byron’s seat in Nottinghamshire, Newstead Abbey.
Bob, sorry for your loss of a family member.
Friends are hard to lose, I still think of many (with fond memories). Last night I was talking about chasing squirrels and how this job seems to get passed down from old dog to new. Canuck got tired of Maggie nipping at her ears and told Maggie go in the back yard and chase my squirrels, so she did. Once Canuck was sure that Maggie knew how to chase squirrels, Canuck passed on. (Funny, she never pass chase ball down.) Maggie, told Sarah to quite nipping at my ears. Go in the back yard and chase squirrels. Once Sarah had this down pat, Maggie passed on. I am afraid that Bo, is no longer nipping at Sarah’s ears and has gotten pretty good at chasing squirrels. (Sarah makes sure that Bo knows that I am Sarah’s). Life goes on and you remember your best friends for what you gave them and what they gave you. There is always a tear and a smile with the memory.
I was touched by your column and as someone who has lost a large number of beloved pets, you have my deepest sympathy. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Deepest sympathy: 14 years ago I had to put my 16 year old Lab ‘Carly’ to sleep: I still grieve to this day………. but we had 16 years of hunting, walking and fun……Your column touches all animal lovers, thank you
I’m extremely sorry for your loss. I’ve been a fan and follower of yours for years.
Oh, I’m so sorry to hear this. I have lost quite a few animal companions in the past, and it never seems to get any easier.
Really sorry to hear about this Bob, our Vallhund passed away at 15 and the loss was profound.
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:’( – I feel your pain.
To me, loosing a pet is more difficult than loosing a family member. As a aspy geek I don’t interact very well with people but I loved my last dog. As I’ve gotten older I’ve developed some nasty allergies to dogs, which sux, and my kids have some as well so we don’t have any pets that shed.
Sincerely sorry for your loss,
Dan
Our condolances.
The following link is for the video which won the 2010 Vimeo Awards, “Last Minutes with ODEN”. Chosen as Best Video, as well as Best Documentary and Community Choice, this video documents Jason Wood’s last few minutes with his cancer-stricken dog Oden.
(I don’t think we realize how much we are emotionally invested in our pets, until we lose one, especially like this. The power of this video lies not with the physical loss of the dog, but in how the owner’s emotions reflect that loss. I’ve been through this process a few times, and hope I never have to go through it again.)
PLEASE NOTE: This short (6 minutes, 15 seconds) video contains some strong language, and may not be suitable for viewing in a work environment. The video is emotionally intense, but extremely powerful, well-crafted and beautiful (IMHO).
“Last Minutes with ODEN”: http://vimeo.com/8191217
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how much the loss means to you (I’ve helped my family adopt, care for, and ultimately euthanize several rescued goldens). I Wanted to extend condolences on the loss